How to Make Manifesting Easy

So it’s a joke amongst my friends that I only date black men.
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If you look at every guy that I have been remotely interested in or involved with they just happen to be of a darker skin tone! African American, African Australian, Fijian, Jamaican, I went as light as Maori and Samoan. 
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Every time someone asks me if I would date a white guy I offer a shocked expression and say “of course” but the reality is that it’s been awhile!
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I proclaim over and over that I don’t have a preference it “just happens” that way!!
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I am not on any apps or online swiping tinder for only dark men.
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I’m not a founding member of hot black men dot com
(I don’t do any type of online dating)
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I don’t go to clubs where lots of black men hang out (there are some in Sydney and according to my black male friends this is where girls who have black men fetish hang out). If you’re a black dude reading this you could in serious trouble in Sydney! 
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I’m not trying to have beautiful chocolate babies...
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I don’t go out of my way to only look for darker men
I just seem to get the attention of black men
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To be honest I have thought it was this secret hidden superpower of mine because I live in a country where if you had a fetish for black men, there would be slim pickings. I have lived my adult life mostly by the beach which is mostly white Australia, white Brits and Brazilian tourists! and I have this mass generalised belief that they only like girls with ass and while my ass is ok, it’s not a booty talk about! (apologise to black men offended by that stereotype)
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I thought it would be kind of interesting to date a white guy again, I mean I do think Chad Michael Murray is hot and…..
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hmmm...
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Oh that’s it….🙂 
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So I have been on the search for a white guy to break the cycle and then I do it again!! 
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I innocently go to Kmart to buy a selfie stick (no judgements please!!) and a gorgeous, I mean freak’n gorgeous African man appears to be checking me out on the check out line. (haha checking me out in the check out line!)
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We played the game of trying not to be obvious we were checking each other out. He followed me into the Supermarket, pretty much stalked me, hiding behind the nuts checking me out, he left the supermarket two times then came back….. let’s get real if that was a white guy doing that I would have not been happy and called security.
Attractive men get away with ALOT! 
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Finally he comes up to me and says Hi, you’re beautiful, can we be friends (which is proooobably code for something else but whatever!)
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I was being open… Oh piece I forgot to tell you, I had been listening to my course I AM LOVED all day and editing content for it because I am relaunching, so I was in the vortex to attract men. My course works! Who needs Tinder when you are in the vortex of self love!
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So he got my number and walked away. 
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I messaged my friend and said why do you think I always attract black men (she is African, not sure if that is relevant to tell you but she’d tell me if I had some obsessive disorder and I can talk to her about stuff like this) and she reminded me that my subconscious mind knows that I like black men (well she said something more offensive but let’s keep it G rated!) She said just own my preference and stop denying it!
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And that is the moral of this story… Our subconscious mind is ALWAYS attracting what we think and focus on
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We always attract out preference even when we don’t think it’s our preference!! 
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So you have to ask yourself what is your thoughts really focused on? What are you so used to that you just always attract the same thing… There is an empowering and dis-empowering message here because sometimes we do just attract more of what we are used to so think about what it is you really do want! 
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Manifesting isn’t hard, think about the things like this that are super easy for you. What do you effortlessly manifest that you don’t think about.
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In my case I am not tapping, doing rituals, talking to my coach, journalling, meditating, NLPing or whatever else to manifest darker men!! It just is totally natural because it’s a preference of both my conscious and subconscious mind. I’m like a pro. 
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The classic example is if you like Red Mercedes and always look at red Mercedes you will see Red Mercedes everywhere!
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I do however do the inner work to be in the vibration of love and attract good quality men and be in a place of non-attachment and self love, that’s what my course will help with! I always attract like-minded conscious men!
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This post was about the ease of manifesting and also to say come join me on my course I AM LOVED (PM or comment for the details) but also I will come out of the closest and stop denying what is so effing obvious to everyone else.. My name is Lyn and I like black men!
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The end 🙂 
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PS white guys feel free to accept the challenge!
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PPS I AM LOVED is the program to join if you’re sick of feeling crap about being single or you want to come back into your own self love so you are not creating an attached codependent relationship with your partner

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